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Letting Go Of Attachment Without Numbing Your Feelings
Releasing attachment can be misconstrued to mean closing down or simply moving on too fast. The truth of the matter is that healthy emotion release does not involve freezing emotion but rather learning to experience it in its entirety without being dominated by it. It can be attached to an individual, a relationship, a memory, or even a personality. Once it gets painful most individuals attempt to avoid it by ignoring feelings. However, emotional suppression is not a cure of attachment, but it postpones and intensifies it.
By Mark Hipster4 days ago in Humans
What To Do When You Love Someone Who Can’t Love Back
It is one of the most emotionally complicated and painful situations a person can experience when he or she loves a person who will not love him or her back. It establishes a silent yet strong struggle between hope and reality. One side has deep emotional attachment and the other emotional absence or unavailability. This disproportion may cause longing, confusion, self-doubt and even emotional exhaustion.
By Mark Hipster4 days ago in Humans
Healing After Loss: Grief, Acceptance, And Moving Forward
One of the greatest human experiences is the loss. The loss of someone we love, the loss of a relationship, the loss of a job, a significant life change, grief can change our worldview and self-image. The process of recovery following loss does not have a linear journey. It is a very personal experience and it entails grief, acceptance, emotion and finally learning how to move on and at the same time remembering the one that has been lost.
By Willian James4 days ago in Humans
How To Stop Overthinking And Calm Your Emotional Mind
One of the most tiresome mental habits that an individual can undergo is overthinking. It is able to make a mountain out of a molehill, repeat the same mistake over and over again, and cause anxiety about matters that have not even occurred yet. Overthinking turns into a habit, resulting in insomnia, anxiety, and inability to concentrate on things or enjoy life. To be mentally clear, emotionally balanced and generally healthy, it is imperative to learn how to quit overthinking and open your heart to the calmness of your emotional mind.
By Willian James4 days ago in Humans
The Text
How Three Words on a Screen Ended Everything THE NOTIFICATION THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING 🔔 Jennifer Mitchell was loading the dishwasher on a Sunday evening in October when her husband David's phone buzzed on the kitchen counter and the notification preview displayed three words from a contact saved as "Work - Mike" that read "I miss you" followed by a heart emoji, and in the approximately two seconds it took for Jennifer's eyes to register the notification and her brain to process its implications, twenty-two years of marriage, three children, a house they had built together, and an entire shared life that she believed was fundamentally solid despite the normal stresses and distances of long-term partnership collapsed into a single devastating realization that the man she had trusted completely had been lying to her about something fundamental, and the specific pain of that moment was not anger or sadness but rather the sickening vertigo of discovering that the ground you have been standing on does not actually exist, that the reality you inhabited was a performance maintained by someone who was simultaneously living a different reality that you knew nothing about 💔😱
By The Curious Writer4 days ago in Humans
The Microplastic
Scientists Found Plastic in Human Blood, Brains, and Unborn Babies THE CONTAMINATION YOU CAN'T ESCAPE ☠️ In March 2022 researchers at Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam published a study in the journal Environment International that for the first time detected microplastic particles in human blood, finding quantifiable levels of plastic in twenty-two of twenty-two blood samples tested, meaning every single participant in the study had plastic flowing through their circulatory system reaching every organ in their body including their brain, and this finding which confirmed what environmental scientists had been warning about for years transformed microplastic contamination from an environmental concern primarily about marine life and ecosystem health into a direct human health crisis because the plastic particles circulating in your blood are not inert passengers but are chemically active compounds that carry endocrine-disrupting chemicals, heavy metals, and other toxic substances into tissues and organs where they accumulate over a lifetime and where their health effects are only beginning to be understood 🩸
By The Curious Writer4 days ago in Humans
The Song Nobody Else Can Hear 🎵
THE FREQUENCY OF CONNECTION 🎶 Mia Park was born with a neurological condition called autonomous sensory meridian response that in her case manifested not as the typical tingling sensations most ASMR experiencers describe but as the perception of a faint continuous melody that only she could hear, a personal soundtrack that shifted in tempo, key, and emotional quality based on her proximity to certain people and certain environments, and for most of her life she assumed this internal music was a form of tinnitus or auditory hallucination and she mentioned it to no one because hearing music that nobody else can hear is the kind of symptom that gets you referred to psychiatrists and she had no interest in being medicated out of something that while unexplainable was not unpleasant, just strange and private and hers alone 🎵
By The Curious Writer4 days ago in Humans
